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What glory can there be in the conquest of a mindless body. -Ayn Rand

Male (45) looking for Female Lubbock, Texas, United States

My friends would describe me as an equal balance of the dreamer and the realist. Maniacal dark sense of humor at times. Sharp wit and a sharper tongue. Lover of Jazz, Blues, but will not hesitate to do the Cupid Shuffle if the opportunity should arise.
Can carry a tune, but maybe not on stage just yet. I love art of all types, dance, sculpture, design etc.

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EthnicityMixed Race
National heritageMexican
Height5' 6" (168 cm)
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorOther
Facial HairNone
Body ArtStrategically placed tattoo, Other
Health ConditionNo special Health Conditions


Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job TitleGraphic Designer

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesDocumentaries, Situation comedies, Instructional, Reality shows
Favorite TV showsDexter, True Blood, Mad Men, 30 Rock. Love a good Focus Feature film. Also a favorite is la Dolce Vita by Fellini.
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Drama, Documentary, Horror, Thriller
Favorite moviesLove a good Focus Feature film. Also a favorite is la Dolce Vita by Fellini.Occasional juvenile humor at times. Dark comedies
Music typesRap, Electronic, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Ambient, Soul
Favorite artistsThievery Corporation, Miles Davis, Etta James, Adele, Old School Hip Hop RB, John Legend, Anthony Hamilton Wax Tailor etc.
Reading selectionBiography, Classic, History, Instructional, Music, Nature, Philosophy, Religious, Science, Science fiction, Technical
Favorite booksThe Evolution of God by Robert Wright
Idea of funMostly socializing with coworkers who love to sit and talk shop about design and whats inspiring us at the moment The industry etc. Spending time with my kids and making the most of it. Whether its story time or a water balloon fight. Laughing out loud almost anything. Intellectual humor, dark witty references. not too much is off limits. A new adventure to La Diosa, J's, Harrigans, Okinawa Japan, San Diego, Boston, New Orleans or anyplace new and different.
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Music, Computers


My great timeHanging out with friends, Trying new things, Playing dress-up
Always wanted to tryI've said often..I'd love to climb Machu Picchu but I don't want to do it alone.


Political viewsLibertarian
Attend religious servicesNever
Goal in lifeIn a relationship I'm looking for someone who I can make happy and vice versa, (I know blanket statement). I want to experience all the wonderful things life can offer ina relationship and the world, and someone at my side who can appreciate them equally.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Money, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness
Look for in a partnerI am hoping to meet... Someone who gets it.. (litmus test statement) Where it just works, getting each other, understanding each other, the time spent together both challenges and inspires growth in one another. Sorry if that one was too heady, but you get the jist. Someone who takes care of themselves, but does not make it their one purpose in life.
Someone goal oriented, and understands that sacrifices are made in order to achieve those goals.
On the first dateLive Jazz breathe in the night air, a glass of wine, preparing the mood for great conversation.