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Looking for an Intelligent and Witty Companion

Male (57) looking for Female Tucson, Arizona, United States

Hi there, and thanks for checking this out!

I have successfully moved through multiple life transitions (career hiatus, end of relationship, moving from California, financial crisis, etc.) and am beginning to think about what comes next, but from a creative, rather than reactionary, stance. I would like to find a woman who is interested in spending time together, getting to know each other, with the intent of moving towards a relationship, although I am taking this process slowly.

I am a scientist by profession, a philosopher by nature, a very creative thinker, a subtle artist, an effective teacher, and a great conversationalist. I am witty, clever, and somewhat dry as far as my humor goes (think Minchen, Lehrer, Carlin, Python), but usually always pretty funny.

I spend a lot of my time reading, thinking and writing. I enjoy good film (classic film, sci-fi, biopic, historical fiction, etc.), good music (very ecclectic... everythings cool except pop country and heavy metal), I work as a theatrical and concert lighting designer in my spare time (it's the other brain hemisphere manifestation of my love for all things light!), and I mostly enjoy good company and good, deep thinking conversation.

I am basically a positive, progressive, loving person who can take almost any punch the world throws at me... like the energizer bunny. I am non-religious, believe that this is our only life, and therefore have no choice but to move on through whatever happens with a positive attitude. Everything in my life, no matter how obscure or bizarre, has always led to a better reality over time. That is what keeps me moving forward. And, unlike Hobbits, I LOVE a good adventure...

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageIrish
BuildSlender
Height178 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthVery long
Facial HairNone
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationFriends come over often
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateYes
Have PetsCat
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyEducation / Academic
Employment StatusPart-time
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job TitleResearch Scientist / Educator

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies
Favorite TV showsHBO-type dramas: In Treatment, Rome, Weeds, Carnival, etc.
Favorite movies typesScience fiction, Drama, Documentary, Animation
Favorite moviesLord of the Rings, Contact, Evita, Citizen Kane, Star Wars
Music typesRock, Electronic, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Folk
Favorite artistsGrateful Dead, Pink Floyd, Peter Paul & Mary, Alan Parsons Project, Bob Dylan, Crosby Stills and Nash, Beatles
Reading selectionNews, Ancient, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, Health, History, Humor, Instructional, Mathematics, Mystery, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Reference, Satire, Science, Science fiction, Technical
Favorite booksToo many to List
Idea of funDancing to live music, playing games, watching movies, getting outside and camping or hiking, creative gab sessions
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Movies, Games, Dining, Theater, Travel, Cooking

Personality

SmokerQuitting smoking
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorOutgoing
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Quiet one
Sense of humorDry / sarcastic
My great timeHanging out with friends, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Reading a book, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryFlying a plane, Skydiving

Views

Political viewsVery liberal
ReligionAtheist
Attend religious servicesNever

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerCompassion, intelligence, wit, awareness of the bigger picture
On the first dateAlmost anything that allows us the time to talk and to get a good idea about each other.