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Persistence of Hope of Experience

City-identified, over-educated, underemployed, fatigued by the prevalence of the churched and breeding-insistent on other sites. I am seeking someone to read in the same room with, or company for catching a movie at the Siskel or Music Box or Landmark; someone who is happy to dine out or cook together at home. I will go out to see specific performances, but am definitely not interested in any bar or club "scene." There is the possibility of decidedly non-rational romance, if we meet and our pheromones like one another. I currently do not live with companion animals, but have cherished the company of non-human mammals in the past and would like to do so in the future.
"Turn ons": acumen without pedantry, grooming without vanity, courtesy, punctuality, social awareness, broad shoulders, skill at Scrabble. "Turn offs": people who's profiles consist of a list of superlatives and then end with "modest," the prevalence of cliches such as "laid back," lack of appropriate grammar and punctuation, shirtless profile pictures, littering, under-tipping servers, and Republican party membership. Could we end up working on the Sunday NYT crossword together?

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageFinnish
BuildAverage
Height173 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyEducation / Academic
Employment StatusPart-time
Annual incomeup to $25,000
Job TitleAdjunct English Professor

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesI don't like TV
Favorite TV showsBreaking Bad, Independent Lens, TED talks -- gave up my TV and cable and manage nicely with DVDs and downloads. A little television is fine, but it can be abused.
Favorite movies typesScience fiction, Comedy, Drama, Documentary, Animation
Favorite moviesExotica, The Croupier, District 9, Blade Runner, Spirit World, Volver, Let the Right One In, Shadows in Paradise, Latcho Drom
Music typesCountry, Rock, Pop, Jazz, Punk
Favorite artistsMagnetic Fields, Johnny Cash, Bill Evans, Freakwater, Aimee Mann, X, Eno, just a sampler...
Reading selectionAnthology, Fiction, Humor, Philosophy, Political, Reference, Poetry, Satire
Idea of funSharing a meal and going to movie, bracing walks, learning something, do something, things that I don't know you well enough to share.
HobbiesExercising, Reading, Movies, Dining, Cooking

Personality

SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingDon't drink
Social behaviorReserved
Friends describe asObscure
In High School I was a(n)Brain
Sense of humorDry / sarcastic
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, The movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading a book, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryA social experiment party with multi-colored hats that I could explain to you when we meet.

Views

Political viewsVery liberal
ReligionAtheist
Attend religious servicesOnce a year
Goal in lifeDoing no harm, leaving the place better than I found it (or see the first), ongoing participation and growth in my field of interest.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerReliability, responsibility, kindness, rapport.
On the first dateIt appears that everyone meets for a beverage in a clean, well-lighted place, first.