the written word is seldom interpreted as the author intended . Meet me in person . tell me to my face why you're not interested . standard polite thank you's and apologies will be exchanged and i will go back to mowing my lawn and doing my laundry and not paying my bills because the minimum wage hasn't been adjusted for inflation in over 38 years . I also don't believe in astrology and yet this site doesn't allow one to opt out of it .